How Self-Therapy Journey WorksSelf-Therapy Journey (STJ) is an interactive web application that allows you to explore and resolve your psychological issues. It is the first of its kind—a general purpose web application for psychological exploration and healing.
Prefer Videos or a Webinar?Click here to watch a basic video on how STJ works.
Click here to watch more advanced videos on how STJ works.
Click here to register for an upcoming webinar on STJ.
What STJ DoesSTJ works with a wide variety of issues—not just known mental health symptoms such an depression but also many problems in living such as:
- Procrastination
- Low Self-esteem
- Shyness
- Anger
- Eating Issues
It can also help you transform behavior patterns such as:
- Dependency
- People-pleasing
- Defiance
- Passive-aggressive behavior
STJ can help you to cultivate such healthy capacities as:
- Aliveness
- Social Confidence
- Assertiveness
- Intimacy
- Self-Care
STJ can also help you to heal emotional wounds such as:
- Shame
- Abandonment
- Feeling unlovable
- Feeling worthless
You can think of it as a comprehensive and interactive set of self-help books, plus guided meditations and customized reports.
The Structure of STJ(Clicking on shaded text opens a pop-up with an explanation of the term.)
Self-Therapy Journey (STJ) has three main components: patterns, capacities, and wounds.
* A pattern is a way of behaving, relating, thinking, or feeling that is problematic for you or others, such as Procrastination or People-Pleasing.
* A capacity is a healthy way of functioning such as Work Confidence or Assertiveness.
* A wound is emotional pain or a negative belief that a part of you took on as a result of a harmful or traumatic event or relationship from childhood.
Each problematic pattern is linked with the healthy capacity that transforms it. For example, the People-Pleasing Pattern is linked to the Assertiveness Capacity because Assertiveness transforms People-Pleasing.
Transforming patterns into capacities is the key goal of STJ. In the process of working on a pattern, you can explore and heal the wounds that underlie it.
The system currently includes 23 patterns, 18 capacities, and 14 wounds, and it will grow to include more over time.
Click here to see a graphic showing all the STJ stages and pages.
The STJ Process with a PatternAt the most complete level of enrollment, you work through the following 5-stage process:
Stage 1 - Pattern
You explore your version of the pattern, understanding how you act, think, and feel when this pattern is activated. And you learn about the underlying fears and other motivations that drive your pattern. You engage in a guided meditation that takes you through experiential work on this pattern.
For details on Stage 1, click Stage 1 Users Guide or Stage 1 Intro Video.
Stage 2 - Wounds
You explore the wounds that are behind your pattern. You engage in guided meditations to heal them.
For details, click Stage 2 Users Guide or Stage 2 Intro Video.
Stage 3 - Capacity
You explore the capacity that transforms the pattern.
For details, click Stage 3 Users Guide or Stage 3 Intro Video.
Stage 4 - Working Through Fears
You work through the fears or other motivations that drive the pattern.
For details, click Stage 4 Users Guide or Stage 4 Intro Video.
Stage 5 - Practice
You create a real-time practice for activating the capacity instead of your pattern in a practice situation that is coming up soon in your life.
For details, click Stage 5 Users Guide or Stage 5 Intro Video.
The STJ Process with a CapacityAt the most complete level of enrollment, you work through the following 5-stage process:
Stage 1 - Pattern
You start with a pattern that tends to block the capacity from manifesting. You explore your version of the pattern, understanding how you act, think, and feel when this pattern is activated. And you learn about the underlying fears and other motivations that drive your pattern. You engage in a guided meditation that takes you through experiential work on this pattern. See sample meditation above.
For details, click Stage 1 Users Guide or Stage 1 Intro Video.
Stage 2 - Wounds
You explore the wounds that are behind your pattern. You engage in guided meditations to heal them.
For details, click Stage 2 Users Guide or Stage 2 Intro Video.
Stage 3 - Capacity
You explore the capacity.
For details, click Stage 3 Users Guide or Stage 3 Intro Video.
Stage 4 - Working Through Fears
You work through the fears or other motivations that drive the pattern.
For details, click Stage 4 Users Guide or Stage 4 Intro Video.
Stage 5 - Practice
You create a real-time practice for activating the capacity instead of the pattern in a practice situation that is coming up soon in your life.
For details, click Stage 5 Users Guide or Stage 5 Intro Video.
If you enroll at a simpler level, you will only do some of these stages. For information on levels of enrollment, click here.
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"Shift" Enrollment Level for a PatternProvides...
- Psychological insight
- Quick simple behavior shift
For people who are…
- Busy
- After quick results
- Just starting to work on an issue
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"Shift" Enrollment Level for a CapacityProvides
- Quick simple behavior shift
- Clear goal
For people who are…
- Busy, after quick results
- Just starting to work on a capacity
- Coaching clients
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"Change" Enrollment LevelProvides
- Psychological insight
- Behavior change
- Experiential (IFS) therapy
For people who want to…
- Engage in experiential therapy for more complete behavior change
- Augment their coaching or psychotherapy with self-therapy
- Learn how to use IFS
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"Transformation" Enrollment LevelProvides
- Psychological insight
- Behavior change
- Experiential depth (IFS) therapy
- Personality transformation
For people who want to…
- Dedicate themselves to personal growth work
- Engage in depth therapy for full transformation
- Explore and heal their childhood wounds
- Augment their psychotherapy with self-therapy
Click here for more information. XA pattern is a way of acting, relating, thinking, or feeling that is a problem for you or others. It may keep you from getting you what you want in life. It may close you off to your own experience or your connection with others. It may cause you or others unnecessary pain. A pattern tends to be too rigid, extreme, dysfunctional, or inappropriate for whatever situation you are in.
Click here for a list of all the patterns in STJ.
If you know IFS, click here for a discussion of how patterns relate to IFS.
XA capacity is a healthy way of being. It is a goal for personal growth. It is a way of functioning (and experiencing) that involves feeling good, getting what you want in life, and relating well to other people. Some capacities are interpersonal, such as Intimacy and Assertiveness. Some are personal, such as Ease and Self-Esteem.
Click here for a list of all the capacities in STJ. XA wound is an underlying psychological place of pain or negative belief about yourself or the world.
A wound is caused by an incident or series of incidents or a relationship in childhood (or occasionally in adulthood) in which you were harmed, frightened, or rejected in some way, or in which you didn't get important needs met. The result is unresolved pain or trauma. For example, the Domination Wound leads you to expect to be dominated or to be afraid of being dominated. It is caused by being controlled too much as a child.
If you know IFS, a wound is a type of burden carried by an exile. For example, if you have the Abandonment Wound, it means that you have an exile who was abandoned.
You must have an access code in order to work on wounds. Click here for more information about this. X
"Shift" Enrollment LevelStages for Patterns
Pattern Stage: A pattern
Capacity Stage: The capacity that transforms it
Stages for Capacities
Capacity Stage: The capacity
Practice Stage: The real-time practice that activates it.
Provides
- Quick simple behavior shift
- Clear goal
For people who are…
- Busy
- After quick results
- Just starting to work on an issue
- Coaching clients
You can enroll for each pattern or capacity at the Shift Level for $4.97.
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