The Social Dimension

Patterns

There are two problematic patterns in the Social Dimension—Self-Effacing and Charmer. You may click on each link to learn more about the pattern and then decide if you want to explore it, now or later.

The Self-Effacing Pattern involves being shy, awkward, or withdrawn and avoiding reaching out to people or expressing yourself in social and work situations.

The Charmer Pattern involves being seductive, entertaining, charismatic, flattering, or humorous in an attempt to manipulate people to get attention and admiration.

Capacities

There are two complementary healthy capacities in the Social Dimension--Genuine and Social Confidence. You may click on each link to learn more about the capacity and then decide if you want to work on developing it, now or later.

The Genuine Capacity involves relating to people in an authentic, contactful way that reflects your true feelings.

The Social Confidence Capacity involves being outgoing and expressive, and enjoying social and work connections.




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